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October 25, 2006
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California dreamin’ (or something)

Most of the time, I like California weather.   However, there is one time of year that I could really do without, and that is the span between around September first and about November 15th, which is when it gets really, really hot and dry.   Everyone else gets the nice fall weather and the colorful leaves, and we get heat, Santa Ana winds, and palm fronds littering the ground.   Yuck.

I saw in the paper the other day that the palm trees are dying off, and all I can say is, good riddance.   I’m sure the tourists think they are cool to look at, but the truth is, they drop those miserable fronds all over everything, drip “palm poop” in the springtime, and generally make overgrown nuisances of themselves year round.   The street we used to live on was lined with palm trees.   One of the many reasons I like our current neighborhood is that it is palm tree free.

Of course, we do have magnolia trees up and down the street and they are pretty messy too.   Cities tend to be very unimaginative in their choices of urban trees.   And I don’t know why they picked magnolias for us, but it was done so far back in the mists of history that I doubt anyone at City Hall knows either.

Tonight we are supposed to have high winds and low humidity.   Just more of the kind of California weather I could do without.   Yuck.

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October 22, 2006
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HBJB

My oldest brother is 53 today, and he was born in 1953.     There has to be some kind of cosmic significance to that.

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October 21, 2006
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I’ve got stuff that jingle jangle jingles

Tonight I put together the red-coral-bead-and-coin necklace I’d been planning to do for ages. It turned out really well. I’ll have to wear it over a shirt, obviously, because otherwise the coins will turn my skin green. I’m thinking maybe some kind of shimmery turtleneck from the Wintersilks catalog. Good excuse to go shopping, methinks. I have plenty enough beads and coins to make a matching bracelet and earrings, too, but I’ll do those another day.

I’m also going to make a replica of the Egyptian disk necklace and bracelet that the Metropolitan Museum is selling for $155. Who’s to know mine’s made from bead caps from Fire Mountain Gems and cost me less than $15 when all is said and done?

I’m going to have to go through my necklace hanger and put away the ones I seldom wear. I guess I should start looking for a new jewelry box, too. Or see if anyone wants to take some of these necklaces off my hands (or neck).

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October 16, 2006
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testing, testing

I’m testing out “performancing” for Firefox.  It’s an interesting browser add-on that lets you post to several different kinds of blogs.  I’m not sure I prefer it to my regular method of posting, but it certainly does seem well written.  At least so far.  Took me a while to remember my login password.

I suppose the real test will come when I get around to trying out posting images.

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October 15, 2006
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miscellaneous thoughts

Got some removable bumper sticker “paper” today so I can create a personalized Celtic knot sticker for my laptop.   If it works out well, I’ll post the instructions.

There’s supposed to be a fish-and-chips place in the arcade across from Vroman’s in Pasadena, that’s supposed to be very good.   We went in there today but couldn’t find it.   I wonder if it’s called something else, or if it’s not there any more?

Corollary:   Half a Tommy’s chili dog is definitely better than none.

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October 14, 2006
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random thoughts while paying bills

I don’t know which outfit first came up with the idea of sending out personalized address labels with their gimme letters, but thanks to them, I doubt anyone in the USA will ever have to buy another address label (or hand write another return address) till the end of time.

Maybe I’m deluding myself, but I happen to think that sending a bit extra to the Smithsonian every year for a Contributing membership is just one small way of flipping Bush & Co. and their brand of militant ignorance the bird.

Sometimes I wish I could go back to printing out checks from Quicken on a dot matrix printer, so I wouldn’t have to figure out how to make the bills come out in a multiple of three every time (so as not to waste checks).

And now, off to the post office.

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October 11, 2006
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the stand-up philosopher

Going back to school after so many years has proved interesting in more ways than one.

I was sitting on the pavement in my favorite library-wall alcove yesterday, peacefully eating my lunch, when what I took to be another Older Student (ca. 40 male) walked by, carrying a sandwich packaged as though he’d gotten it from a vending machine.

He stopped, looked at me, and said “I never would have thought to eat lunch there. May I join you and eat lunch?”

I said sure, it was a great place to eat lunch, I always ate lunch there, and he sat down and introduced himself as Steve. We chit-chatted a bit, the usual small talk, and he asked me if I had a class that afternoon. I had just taken a bite out of my sandwich, so I said “Mmm-hmmm.” And of course then he asked me what class it was, and when I said “Welding,” there was this looonnnng pause.

“Oh,” he said. “Well. I, uh, think it’s great that they have… um, vocational classes. I had no idea they taught welding here.”

I gather he thought that Granny in the Alcove had signed up for Introduction to Emily Dickinson, or Art Appreciation, or some other appropriate class for grannies.

“I’m into Philosophy, myself,” he said. “And I’d love to stay and finish this sandwich here, but I just noticed I have a meeting in five minutes, so I guess I’ll have to finish the sandwich there. If you ever want to sign up for a Philosophy class, be sure to look me up!”

Ah! Division meeting (everyone seemed to have them today) and he was a teacher, not a student.

I took a Philosophy class once, as an undergrad, and it was a good thing I was taking it pass/fail and the prof really, really liked me, so he passed me. Under other circumstances I would have flunked it solid. Chances of my ever taking Philosophy again… um, well, sorry, Steve, but maybe we can do lunch again someday.

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October 7, 2006
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beep… beep…. beep….

Much as a night owl like myself hates to admit it, sometimes getting up early has actual advantages.

I forgot to un-set my alarm after I slept through it on Thursday (thank goodness I still made it to class on time).   So Friday morning I was waked up at 7:30am, which is a ghastly hour for someone who prefers to stay up late and get up late.   But I was definitely awake after the alarm went off, so I got up and got going on my day.

So, yesterday before lunchtime, I had already been to the post office and the drugstore and had baked two pans of pumpkin cheesecake bars.   Amazing.

I can’t imagine myself being that productive in the morning on a regular basis, but it certainly was worth while getting my lazy fanny out of bed yesterday.

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October 2, 2006
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musical musings

I ordered a classic CD by Umm Khaltum (or Oum Kaltoum–transliterating Arabic into English is an inexact science at best) from an Amazon Marketplace store the other day.   It arrived today.   I had been wanting to hear what she sounded like for a long time.   I still remember reading about how three million people went berserk at her funeral.

Arabic music is an acquired taste for Westerners, but I can definitely see why people were so in love with her voice.   I’ll have to listen to the CD again through headphones sometime when I can really sit and pay attention to it.

The accounts of her funeral mentioned that she was famous for singing quarter-tones better than anyone.   We don’t, apparently, have those in westernized music, as a general rule.   That led me to wonder whose recording of the song “These Days” I used to listen to when I was a disk jockey (remembering the line “These days I sit on cornerstones, and count the time in quarter-tones to tell”).   I thought it was by Tom Rush, but apparently not.

I liked being a disk jockey.   I just wish I hadn’t done my best work in the years when it was perfectly acceptable to say “We’re not hiring women for that job.”   I did a lot better (doing alternative-rock shows on public radio) than a lot of the men who had jobs in commercial radio in that area and at that time, but nobody wanted women on the air except as news people.   I was offered a job as a news person at one of the commercial stations, through the good graces of someone I knew there, but I turned it down because they wouldn’t agree to try me as a disk jockey.   One of my good friends accepted the news job, and they kept her just long enough for the ratings to come out and laid her off.   So I felt that I’d made the right decision, but who knows?   Water under the bridge.

Wouldn’t it be neat if we could review our lives and change one thing at a time and see how life would have been if that had happened to begin with?   And then choose the life to live that turned out best?

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September 30, 2006
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technological musings

The cable internet connection is very, very flaky this afternoon.   Somehow, reminding myself “at least it’s not dialup” doesn’t make me any the less irritated thereby.   Probably because I pay the bills and I know how much the cable company is gouging us for every month.   At those prices, it oughta work.

I was wondering this afternoon what we’ll do when our trusty call-blocking Caller ID boxes finally give up the ghost.   Nobody makes Caller ID boxes like that any more, as far as I can tell.   I suppose the next best thing would be to get another Fry’s bargain-basement no-name Linux box and set it up as a call director, or add that into the one we already have, since it’s on all the time (although we’d definitely have to get a larger hard drive for it if so).   I’m sure there must be software out there that can answer the phone, tell the caller they’re not welcome, and hang up on them (besides being a straight-up answering machine).   We even have an extra external voice modem to contribute to the cause, although making it work under Linux might be problematical.

We used to have a great two-line answering machine that let us have several different customized outgoing messages, had three mailboxes (we only used one, but at least the other two were there), and read us caller’s phone numbers if they appeared on the Caller ID.   I think it was made by GE.   Alas, it gave up the ghost, and that was something else I couldn’t find again anywhere, not even on eBay.   Just try to find a two-line answering machine of any kind, as a matter of fact–I guess either having two phone lines is less popular than it once was, or having one machine answer both lines is out of favor, or something.   We had to replace that one machine with two separate machines that aren’t nearly as versatile as the one they replaced. At the time we bought the replacements we thought it didn’t matter about the machine on the second phone line; that machine could be as cheap as possible (and it is) because we never answered that phone.   However, I’ve come to the conclusion that that phone number is better to give out than my pager number (I think after this year’s subscription is done, I’m canceling the pager) so I’m back to the “could we use a cheap computer as a call director” consideration again.

We were late adopters of a lot of (nowadays) common-garden technology because we had to wait for the price to come down.   Poverty had its benefits, though, because by the time we’d saved up for gizmos like an answering machine and a VCR, we were able to buy a much better one for a much lower price than when we’d first decided we wanted it.   I’m still a firm believer in not buying version 1.0 of anything, even though we can afford it now.

I still haven’t worked on the put-the-flash-drive-into-the-Lego-brick project.   The little container of Legos and the flash drive have been sitting on my desk looking at me for quite some time now.   Of course, now that I have a PanaVise, that job will be a lot easier.   I just haven’t decided on the best way to install the PanaVise on my work table.   Or the best location for it, for that matter.   I also need to figure out how to install my bench pin, since the frame of the work table is way too thick for the clamp for that.   At least I know where I want to put it.

Corollary:   Everybody and their dog seems to have flash drives on sale for next to nothing these days.   I keep eyeing them in the ads.   But I’ve got three of the silly things already and not even the 256 meg one is half full.   I wish my old Toshiba had USB, because the combination of a small, light laptop and a USB drive to securely store my writing on would be a winner.   The HP is a glorious machine, and I’m forever grateful to Blink for giving it to me, but we both know, portable it ain’t.The cable internet connection is very, very flaky this afternoon.   Somehow, reminding myself “at least it’s not dialup” doesn’t make me any the less irritated thereby.   Probably because I pay the bills and I know how much the cable company is gouging us for every month.   At those prices, it oughta work.

I was wondering this afternoon what we’ll do when our trusty call-blocking Caller ID boxes finally give up the ghost.   Nobody makes Caller ID boxes like that any more, as far as I can tell.   I suppose the next best thing would be to get another Fry’s bargain-basement no-name Linux box and set it up as a call director, or add that into the one we already have, since it’s on all the time (although we’d definitely have to get a larger hard drive for it if so).   I’m sure there must be software out there that can answer the phone, tell the caller they’re not welcome, and hang up on them (besides being a straight-up answering machine).   We even have an extra external voice modem to contribute to the cause, although making it work under Linux might be problematical.

We used to have a great two-line answering machine that let us have several different customized outgoing messages, had three mailboxes (we only used one, but at least the other two were there), and read us caller’s phone numbers if they appeared on the Caller ID.   I think it was made by GE.   Alas, it gave up the ghost, and that was something else I couldn’t find again anywhere, not even on eBay.   Just try to find a two-line answering machine of any kind, as a matter of fact–I guess either having two phone lines is less popular than it once was, or having one machine answer both lines is out of favor, or something.   We had to replace that one machine with two separate machines that aren’t nearly as versatile as the one they replaced. At the time we bought the replacements we thought it didn’t matter about the machine on the second phone line; that machine could be as cheap as possible (and it is) because we never answered that phone.   However, I’ve come to the conclusion that that phone number is better to give out than my pager number (I think after this year’s subscription is done, I’m canceling the pager) so I’m back to the “could we use a cheap computer as a call director” consideration again.

We were late adopters of a lot of (nowadays) common-garden technology because we had to wait for the price to come down.   Poverty had its benefits, though, because by the time we’d saved up for gizmos like an answering machine and a VCR, we were able to buy a much better one for a much lower price than when we’d first decided we wanted it.   I’m still a firm believer in not buying version 1.0 of anything, even though we can afford it now.

I still haven’t worked on the put-the-flash-drive-into-the-Lego-brick project.   The little container of Legos and the flash drive have been sitting on my desk looking at me for quite some time now.   Of course, now that I have a PanaVise, that job will be a lot easier.   I just haven’t decided on the best way to install the PanaVise on my work table.   Or the best location for it, for that matter.   I also need to figure out how to install my bench pin, since the frame of the work table is way too thick for the clamp for that.   At least I know where I want to put it.

Corollary:   Everybody and their dog seems to have flash drives on sale for next to nothing these days.   I keep eyeing them in the ads.   But I’ve got three of the silly things already and not even the 256 meg one is half full.   I wish my old Toshiba had USB, because the combination of a small, light laptop and a USB drive to securely store my writing on would be a winner.   The HP is a glorious machine, and I’m forever grateful to Blink for giving it to me, but we both know, portable it ain’t.

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